This might sound counterintuitive. Thousands of families across Ontario are struggling to find childcare, and I'm saying we don't need more spots? Let me explain.
We absolutely need more spots. But spots alone won't fix this. Because the biggest problem in Ontario childcare right now isn't that there aren't enough spaces — it's that families and available spaces can't find each other.
A hospital analogy
Ontario already solved a version of this problem in healthcare. Emergency room wait times were a crisis for years. The instinct was to build more hospitals, hire more doctors. And yes, that helped. But the single biggest improvement to ER wait times came from something much simpler: better triage and intake systems. Redirecting patients to the right care setting — urgent care clinics, telehealth, walk-in clinics — instead of having everyone funnel into the same emergency room.
The childcare system is stuck in the "everyone goes to the ER" phase. Families don't know which centres have openings. Centres don't know which families are genuinely looking. So everyone floods every waitlist, creating a mess of duplicate applications and outdated information that makes the problem look bigger and feel worse than it actually is.
The numbers are misleading
Here's a question I started asking: if a municipality reports 3,000 children on childcare waitlists, how many of those children are actually, right now, actively searching for a spot?
The answer, based on what I've seen and what daycare directors have told me, is dramatically lower than 3,000. Many of those children already found care elsewhere. Some aged out of the category they applied for. Some families moved. Some put their name down "just in case" during pregnancy and never followed up.
But nobody cleans the lists. So the numbers keep growing, the headlines keep sounding the alarm, and the actual parents who need care right now are buried under a pile of stale data.
What routing looks like in childcare
Imagine a daycare director in Ajax has two toddler spots opening next month. Under the current system, she checks her waitlist, starts making calls, and spends hours playing phone tag with families who may or may not still be looking.
Now imagine a system where she posts those two openings and immediately sees a short list of families within 15 minutes of her centre who are actively looking for toddler care starting next month. She reaches out to three families. Two of them book tours. One enrolls within the week.
That's not a fantasy. That's a routing problem with a straightforward solution. The families exist. The spots exist. What's missing is the connection between them.
Building is necessary. Routing is urgent.
I'm not arguing against building new childcare centres or creating new licensed home care spots. Ontario needs more capacity, full stop. The CWELCC program has driven demand through the roof by making quality childcare affordable, and that's a wonderful problem to have.
But building takes years. A new centre needs funding, zoning, construction, licensing, staffing. Even expanding an existing centre takes months of regulatory work.
Routing can happen right now. If we can connect the families who are searching today with the spots that are open today, we reduce the pressure immediately — without spending a dollar on construction.
Why I'm building TinyMatch
This isn't a theoretical argument for me. I'm a dad in Pickering who went through the waitlist grind firsthand. I saw how broken the system was, and I couldn't shake the feeling that there had to be a better way.
TinyMatch is that better way. It's a free platform where childcare providers list their real, current openings and families get matched to the spots that fit — by age group, location, and availability. No inflated waitlists. No duplicate applications. Just real spots and real families, connected quickly.
We're starting in Durham Region because that's home, and because the need here is as urgent as anywhere in the province. But the routing problem exists everywhere in Ontario, and we're building TinyMatch to scale.
If you're a parent in Durham Region, sign up for free at tinymatch.ca. If you're a childcare provider with spots to fill, we'd love to talk.